[color=rgb(51, 51, 51)][size=16px]How many times do you need to be punched in the face before you decide it’s not a good situation for you? Can you really love someone that treats you like garbage? What is the tipping point to walk away?[/size][/color]
[quote author=priya link=topic=95158.msg611835#msg611835 date=1421533350]
[color=rgb(51, 51, 51)][size=16px] Can you really love someone that treats you like garbage? What is the tipping point to walk away?[/size][/color]
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Excellent question....
And the answer is no...
You can't love somebody who abuses you. Even an animal will eventually throw up it's paws and say the hell with this and come out fighting it's abuser back. And it's really only our parents who we can love despite their abuse of us. So the tipping point is experience. The soul working out bottled up issues stemming from it's childhood.
[color=rgb(25, 25, 25)]My mom stayed with two physically abusive men for years. Typically, the abuser strips away the victim's self esteem and makes her feel like she is the one who is doing something wrong[/color]
[quote author=raisa link=topic=95158.msg611858#msg611858 date=1421534752]
[color=rgb(25, 25, 25)]My mom stayed with two physically abusive men for years. Typically, the abuser strips away the victim's self esteem and makes her feel like she is the one who is doing something wrong[/color]
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aaaawwww : you ever probed her as to what she LIKED about them ? :-\