Has this happened to you in a restaurant, should I have gone to the manager?

point!  Maybe she felt the request was a pickup line! 

IF it is : why you not replying to the thread topic by Priya :BUT to my response ?

answer : You stalking me 

priya is a girl : the waitress , too !

SO she prob felt priya was playing de fool with her skin color  ::LOL::

There are many ways to handle these situations .
Food servers makes less than minimum wages and they depends on tips .
What happened here is that the server looked at the customer and determined that there no  15 % to be had and ignored 
You should have said that you are violently allergic to white sugar

or a pick up line! 

priya , please tell Googley you are all female and only love Guys....thx :

and the waitress was not Brown skin  ;D

A while back about 8 of us dropped in at a bar after work
This was a white bar and there  weren't many patrons there . We waited for about 10 minutes and the waitresses completely ignored us . Now these were a bunch of Berbicians and was about to unleash some mudda skunts cussin and leave but I calm  dem down and told them to watch me and  learn
I  went over to the bitch .. meant waitress an  softly said " Madam we are recent  immigrants from South Africa and inadvertently strayed  into  the white section , can you please direct  us to the  coloured section"
Now this woman was deeply apologetic  and  said "  I'm  sorry but in this country races are not separated , all are equal".
She proceeded to over serve from then on and every few minutes " are you Ok"? and sometimes  she would hold the beer bottle and look at it to  see if it was empty .
I remembered  vividly Buddy sayin   ' Kwams . I dont  like  how dis woman a touch me beer bottle , you na know if she  went to  the toilet and dig ...".....;

;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D