ok then.

What is your sexual orientation?
I am gay, I am attracted to other men. I have had good relationships with girls when I was younger but after awhile, I have recognised and accepted that I am gay. For me, being gay means having some feminine qualities and sometimes I think like a woman.

we conducted an interview with a man who sometimes has sex with other men, to talk about HIV/AIDS, the gay lifestyle and other things. Our interviewee is a 30-something, University educated professional.
Why do you have sex with other men?
What! ..why does anyone have sex with anyone – money, pleasure.. I don't know, because I like it, because the other guy looks good and makes me feel good, sometimes, I think because I want physical contact and I cannot get the same thing with a woman. Sometimes, it is not about the sex

What about women and marriage?
I fell in love with a woman once, but that did not work out, it was nice though when it lasted. Somethings are not easy and straight forward. yeah. I used to think that this was a phase, and with prayers, I would be able to get married and all would be well, but it is not working out.
Are you part of any gay scene or group or anything like that in Guyana?
No, I am terrified, because of confidentiality, and also because I think that sometimes we do the same things straight people do, we put on a face and pretend a lot that all is well, just like we do when we with straight people. It is confusing, and very lonely, because you dont want people to laugh at you for being 'in the closet', sometimes I envy those guys who out and proud in their women's clothes..
Do you wear women's clothes?
Nah, i never felt the urge, in Guyana people assume that gay means wearing women's clothes .. besides which, I am hairy, and it would take too much for me to look good in dress and make up.. and in any case, when you get down to it.. you take off all the clothes anyway, man or woman
How many men have you had sex with?
Thousands.. I am gay, so I must have a versatile and busy sex life.. right? I dont know, I dont count.. what I like to reflect on though, is the guys who I might have loved, or who if things were different around us, we could have 'settled down together', all the straight people who could show affection in public, imagine if they could not for whatever reason and things had to be secret
What do you want in the future for you?
I don't know, sometimes i want to stop fighting and die, you know go out there and get AIDs as they want me to, then I would not be a problem for anyone. That takes courage though and maybe God got other things in store for me. Many gay guys around the world are out and proud and are in public life and are accepted. I can't deal with that, so I just do what I have to do, you know christmas, family, friends, work, work, l, do this, do that..survival I guess, and in between find a way to make things work. What I know, is that I will be alone.

This is a story of a 27 year old celibate man
Who are you?
I do not like talking much about myself. I like meeting with people and I get on well with most people, I only hate hypocrites and liars. I like to make people happy around me.
Why are you still a virgin?
I believe that we should wait until we get married before having sex. I am a Jehovah Witness and it has been easy to follow the guidelines and beliefs. If I do "sin" and I do a lot of times, that's only because I'm not perfect. It also means that when I do, I think I know how to deal with it.
What is it like to be a virgin?
I have come close many times to having sex, I am attracted to women and I have had close encounters. I am not fond of masturbation. Some women seem to find it intriguing that I am still a virgin. I have no problems telling people and I have no shame about it.
What are your relationships like?
I have had relationships with girls, and I have had close relationships and strong feelings for other guys. My relationships with girls were good. I have no problem telling the guys that I love, that I love them. There can be love without any sexual feelings. There is one guy I met outside of Guyana. He is one of the most energetic, free-spirited, fun guys I've ever met. I have to hand it to the guy, very good looking as well. So, we had a great time together, and yes, we came very close to each other, physically, and that included sleeping together (we did not have sex). We remain great friends, and we do talk of our experience and I can't wait to meet him again. We did kiss, and that too on the lips. Kissing him was beautiful
Are you gay or bisexual?
I am not gay. I have never wanted to be and I have never felt that I am. Why can't two males have a warm,close relationship without it being a gay relationship? Why does it have to mean that I have homosexual desires? People need to come to realise that two men can share a very close relationship without letting intimacy come between. Society engenders the thought that if you do feel strongly about another man, that you are gay. It is not a view that I subscribe to.
So what are you?
I am who I am and I refuse to conform to anyone's thinking. Maybe I am not weak into letting people do that. Maybe I can do what I want and stand up to it and not make excuses for it. I wish people would stop making a big deal about people's sexuality. I respect people for who they are, not for whether they are man or woman, gay or straight.
What do you want for your future?
I hope to get married. I do not think I want children at this stage, but that could change. I also hope to get more involved in my religious work. I like Guyana and I think it has great potential. I do not plan to leave.

What an Ass....bloody faggot !  ::

I wanna Quit having Sex ....

and go to Pilgrimage !

Soon.

how long you have to abstain from sex...b4 entering pilgrimage?

No Idea ....but it doesnt mattah :

You gats to do wuh yuh gotta do ! 

ok...

become a flying nun