why wud you start there ::confused::
start with humanity in diverse universal existential conditions..and the demands nature makes on us to survive...what must we do in order to survive given who we are and how best to do it.
we must agree to be guided thusly..we doh have a choice. we don't even know what is right but must proceed on our best calculations every day as we expand knowledge, perfecting our ways as we live and respond.
in the end its really a simple learning process, of trial and error and correction...perfecting the ways we discover to be positively useful, relative to natural law as we go. its whatever we find works relative to our natural demands.
nature made phuck as the means of reproduction obsessive, to deny and refrain from at the cost of ones sanity and emotional peace and balance. sex is like a trauma with its panoply of emotionally obsessive responses. you have to do it.
we couched sex in all manner of inaccurate and repressive representations and doctrinal treatments that have ruined human sexuality producing all manner of emotional problems and what we refer to as deviant sexuality..traumatic... and because it is associated with naturally obsessive sexuality, obsessive, sick and violent mostly.
what we have to do to correct is simple. human is animal which is the truth, given rise to by nature. nature is the arbiter not we. we have to find out the law, what it is and bring ourselves into line. what we do instead is play god, set up, think talk and behave as if we are decisive..when in fact our decision is totally wrong, deadly wrong for our chances of survival
that is why we are in terminal crisis, arrived at, standing at the precipice and going over, unable to pull back. because we are all stupid, because we are exploitative of each other, insecure, are animals and think we are god, reject who we actually are and so eliminate all and every chance we have in existence.
we have developed lies, mostly deliberately to facilitate the wealth and security of small human minorities at the expense of the vast majority..and we have come to believe the lies. the belief in the lies, the doctrines and ideologies we have created out of whole cloth is so complete, belief has removed all human clarity so we cant see our way clear to survival in the mess we have made...save for the prophets.
and that is an truly amazing fact of life these past 171 years, going back say to about 1850 and Frederick Douglas...humanity has produced and continues to produce a line of amazing human beings, of all human ethnic groups, men and women, prophets all, of great human character and existential value, social worth. were it not for these, global social life would be dreary and pointless indeed.
but we have to find ways ketch..and in the affairs of men and women to this point monogamy has been very helpful indeed. we would not be here without that institution. the decline of monogamy does not make it a failure. the decline of monogamy could be from a whole lot of causes all associated with the root point of social functioning..the way society is run, the purpose of it. that way is capitalist and it is now failed, passe' and needs to be revolutionized.
such change may allow for a re-energizing of monogamy for clearly there are many social advantages of monogamy. basic social change may also allow for the full exploration of cohabiting potential of heterosexuality that would include other forms of man woman relations of value to social stability and advance.
such social reform would also lead to I am absolutely certain, a reduction, to the point of elimination of homosexuality as a factor in human social/cultural existence
