Ketchim and Monogamy........

I am taking another look at monogamy man. 

there are issues and movement currently challenging man woman relationship in ways that suggests an organized, comprehensive and concerted attack on humanity with the purpose of not only massive genocide, but rendering humanity cut away from our natural underpinning, cast adrift in confusion all the better for social control

man woman relationship and the family is important man..basic, fundamental. to get rid of monogamy we must have a replacement as basic, as natural and effective in keeping humanity sane and living successfully in nature.

do we get rid of monogamy or do we make sure that it will be successful ::confused::

and how do we make it successful..ensure it is a successful human institution ::confused::

its like white hypocrissy....

how do you have a war on drugs and an opioid epidemic at the same time ::confused:: ::confused::

and this opium epidemic is official, a result of official legal doctor prescription of addictive drugged painkillers

amazing!

we have ignored divorce rates for too long.

time to address it and demolish the monogamy marriage institution.

bigger story than jess bruk it up ketchim.  we have to look deeper :

well lets start at divorce rates.

establish marriage 'as is' : is a failed institution

then go deeper towards a solution.

why wud you start there ::confused::

start with humanity in diverse universal existential conditions..and the demands nature makes on us to survive...what must we do in order to survive given who we are and how best to do it.

we must agree to be guided thusly..we doh have a choice.  we don't even know what is right but must proceed on our best calculations every day as we expand knowledge, perfecting our ways as we live and respond.

in the end its really a simple learning process, of trial and error and correction...perfecting the ways we discover to be positively useful, relative to natural law as we go.  its whatever we find works relative to our natural demands.

nature made phuck as the means of reproduction obsessive, to deny and refrain from at the cost of ones sanity and emotional peace and balance.  sex is like a trauma with its panoply of emotionally obsessive responses.  you have to do it.

we couched sex in all manner of inaccurate and repressive representations and doctrinal treatments that have ruined human sexuality producing all manner of emotional problems and what we refer to as deviant sexuality..traumatic... and because it is associated with naturally obsessive sexuality, obsessive, sick and violent mostly.

what we have to do to correct is simple.  human is animal which is the truth, given rise to by nature.  nature is the arbiter not we.  we have to find out the law, what it is and bring ourselves into line.  what we do instead is play god, set up, think talk and behave as if we are decisive..when in fact our decision is totally wrong, deadly wrong for our chances of survival

that is why we are in terminal crisis, arrived at, standing at the precipice and going over, unable to pull back.  because we are all stupid, because we are exploitative of each other, insecure, are animals and think we are god, reject who we actually are and so eliminate all and every chance we have in existence. 

we have developed lies, mostly deliberately to facilitate the wealth and security of small human minorities at the expense of the vast majority..and we have come to believe the lies.  the belief in the lies, the doctrines and ideologies we have created out of whole cloth is so complete, belief has removed all human clarity so we cant see our way clear to survival in the mess we have made...save for the prophets.

and that is an truly amazing fact of life these past 171 years, going back say to about 1850 and Frederick Douglas...humanity has produced and continues to produce a line of amazing human beings, of all human ethnic groups, men and women, prophets all, of great human character and existential value, social worth. were it not for these, global social life would be dreary and pointless indeed.

but we have to find ways ketch..and in the affairs of men and women to this point monogamy has been very helpful indeed.  we would not be here without that institution.  the decline of monogamy does not make it a failure.  the decline of monogamy could be from a whole lot of causes all associated with the root point of social functioning..the way society is run, the purpose of it. that way is capitalist and it is now failed, passe' and needs to be revolutionized.

such change may allow for a re-energizing of monogamy for clearly there are many social advantages of monogamy.  basic social change may also allow for the full exploration of cohabiting potential of heterosexuality that would include other forms of man woman relations of value to social stability and advance.

such social reform would also lead to I am absolutely certain, a reduction, to the point of elimination of homosexuality as a factor in human social/cultural existence

our culture is based on exploitation..the comprehensive and extraordinarily sophisticated theft of the human labour power and time of the majority of human beings, by an equally sophisticated minority human group, that has managed to effect a social hegemony on the planet.

this activity which is based in the way humans make a living off nature, informs, directs, conditions, shapes all other human behavior, human social relations.  at base the exploitation produces maximum human insecurity and emotional disturbance, so no human activity is free from such tension and danger.  life then is fraught from the basic activity of life...making a living in exploitative economic conditions

it follows then that all human relationship as I said is affected, poisoned by fear and insecurity.  all we do is predicated on suspicion and concern about the intent of others involved, for rape and exploitation of some kind. deceit and fraud  is the combined shadow of evil potential that follows everything that humans do, 24/7

trust, honesty are absent qualities in human relations which is why we are always talking about them..so much so that all and any human relationship that stands the test of time is a major achievement by those involved. 

AND MONOGAMY AS A PRINCIPAL AND BASIC FORM OF HUMAN RELATIONS MUST BE THE MOST ADVERSELY AFFECTED BY THE BASIC EXPLOITATIVE WAY WE EARN.. OR DO NOT EARN A LIVING.. IN HUMAN CULTURE FOR THE LONGEST WHILE NOW.  SURELY SO!

AS A RESULT THERE IS NO WAY WE CAN JUDGE MONOGAMY TO HAVE FAILED AND TOSS IT ON THE HEAP, CASTING IT TO THE PAST AS USELESS AND OLD FASHIONED.  THAT WOULD NOT BE FAIR TO OURSELVES..MORE SO THAT ANYTHING WE REPLACE IT WITH WILL ALSO BE POISONED BY THE WAY WE LIVE, THE NATURE OF OUR CULTURE..AND THAT IS IF THE REPLACEMENTS ARE HALFWAY DECENT.

BUT FROM THE ALTERNATIVES THAT HAVE ARISEN IN THE SUPPOSED FAILURE OF MONOGAMY..HOMOSEXUALITY, POLYGAMY, INCEST ETC...ARE ALL FRAUGHT ALSO

I doh know man but I say that the cart must stay behind the horse and donkey.  revolutionize society, place the means of society in the hands of the people..let there be popular organization of the production of the means of life, the maximization of human security etc.,  and on that basis we reorganize our relations based on social security..not insecurity. 

people would relate with and to each other for no other reasons than they want to, that we are human and have no reason to fear each other, are friendly and fearless of friendship and simple camaraderie with each other..simple in the fact that all people would be secure in the social process, because that process then generates all and every opportunity needed by anyone/everyone to work and make a living, develop their potential in life in the general moving forward of human purpose..which then would be focused on answering the obvious and simple question that flows from existence itself...how do we survive indefinitely in an evolutionary universe

social revolution would allow for the clearing away of all human emotional dysfunction and the ideological and doctrinal strictures and pressures that gave rise to them.  Homosexuality, incest and all the nastiness would be understood, reconciled and put aside.  human survival would be improved, life extended and a massive rise in overall human confidence in existence would be achieved. 

the truth of human existence would threaten no one in truly democratic society.  there would be no minority group exerting a social hegemony which truth would endanger, causing them to elongate a repressive social system on the rest of humanity.

truth is the friend of humanity, our boon and advantage. humanity needs truth to enhance our chances in universal conditions.  we desperately need a social system that does not hide truth but encourages its discovery and development and popular exposure, so it can be sifted and APPLIED positively in the human social process and collective interest

in fact A new separate thread is not the right place for this..the Monogamy Thread is where this is for..where it fits.

it fits because we can see the corruption of capitalism, the inequality, racism and exploitation capitalism inculcates in the social life at all levels..how it makes all human contact and inter-relationship exploitative..corrupts the whole of the social spectrum everywhere, all the time period..including monogamy.