Domestic Violence: Why Men are Drama Queens

they were very affectionate after the abuse.

[quote author=raisa link=topic=95158.msg611858#msg611858 date=1421534752]
[color=rgb(25, 25, 25)]My mom stayed with two physically abusive men for years. Typically, the abuser strips away the victim's self esteem and makes her feel like she is the one who is doing something wrong[/color]
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I'm sorry to hear that....

My mom was different. She didn't take any kind of maltreatment from men. And she had to correct my father who in their early days thought that he could have her as a punching bag. She set him straight for life. 

[quote author=raisa link=topic=95158.msg611862#msg611862 date=1421534960]
they were very affectionate after the abuse.
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Yeah : that behavior is age old and females still fall for it !  :-[

[quote author=pattycake link=topic=95158.msg611863#msg611863 date=1421535006]
She set him straight for life. 
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pity she could not help you ! 

my mom claims she stayed for the children sake

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=95158.msg611866#msg611866 date=1421535200]
pity she could not help you ! 
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She sure did.  :-*

Because I will do the same thing she did to correct my father. 

And do it quick. 

my father's abuse has affected my relationship with my husband if he seems angry at something i clam up fearing the worst.

[quote author=pattycake link=topic=95158.msg611869#msg611869 date=1421535382]
She sure did.  :-*
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Thats why you doant have a man ....hahahahaha

Man look at you and say " nahhhhh ....she look like a drill sargeant "

a domineering woman like pc can be sweet bad :-*

[quote author=raisa link=topic=95158.msg611871#msg611871 date=1421535418]
my father's abuse has affected my relationship with my husband if he seems angry at something i clam up fearing the worst.
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Thats good ....cause you may just get the worse.

Leave the room and let him Rant !

do not NAG ....it just aggravates